I think Valentines Day is a day for the guys to not only spoil the girl there with and love but a day to show them how much they mean to you. you can buy the traditional card, flowers, dinner, ect but if theres no real effort or heart put into it you might as well just just do nothing and count yourself single and dumped. you don't have to spend every last penny on them but make the day and evening special and something they remember. If shes a decent girl she will see the true effert you have put into it and love it. Its not what you do but more what your trying to tell her and show her to the best of your abbility. And got gods sake if you really do love her, let her see it not only all that day, but all the time you have with her.
girls love romance and someone who is true to them and if you cant do that, some other guy will be glad to take ur place.
as for my perfect valentines day, that can truely (in my opinion) only be figured out by knowing the girl you love and what she likes, dislikes and what about her makes the perfect idea special and just for her.
dragonchild